Babies Babies Babies

There’s something about becoming a parent that bring out the poet in most of us. Fortunately, James Weldon Johnson’s response to parenthood is rather better than most of our efforts. My baby had his first haircut this past Sunday, so, as he becomes more and more of a little boy and less and less of a little baby, I’m anxious to capture these baby moments before they pass. Hence, a poem referencing a baby.

QOTD: What’s one of your favorite things about your kid(s)? Or, if you don’t have any little hellions of your own (yet?), what’s one of your favorite things about your parent(s)?

A Poet to His Baby Son
James Weldon Johnson

Tiny bit of humanity,
Blessed with your mother’s face,
And cursed with your father’s mind.

I say cursed with your father’s mind,
Because you can lie so long and so quietly on your back,
Playing with the dimpled big toe of your left foot,
And looking away,
Through the ceiling of the room, and beyond.
Can it be that already you are thinking of being a poet?

Why don’t you kick and howl
And make the neighbors talk about
“That damned baby next door,”
And make up your mind forthwith
To grow up and be a banker
Or a politician or some other sort of go-getter
Or –?– whatever you decide upon,
Rid yourself of these incipient thoughts
About being a poet.

For poets no longer are makers of songs,
Chanters of the gold and purple harvest,
Sayers of the glories of earth and sky,
Of the sweet pain of love
And the keen joy of living;
No longer dreamers of the essential dreams,
And interpreters of the eternal truth,
Through the eternal beauty.
Poets these days are unfortunate fellows.
Baffled in trying to say old things in a new way
Or new things in an old language,
They talk abracadabra
In an unknown tongue,
Each one fashioning for himself
A wordy world of shadow problems,
And as a self-imagined Atlas,
Struggling under it with puny legs and arms,
Groaning out incoherent complaints at his load.

My son, this is no time nor place for a poet;
Grow up and join the big, busy crowd
That scrambles for what it thinks it wants
Out of this old world which is– as it is–
And, probably, always will be.

Take the advice of a father who knows:
You cannot begin too young
Not to be a poet.

3 thoughts on “Babies Babies Babies

  1. Favorite things about my kids is their laughter! Nothing brings me more joy than laughing with them or listening to them laugh together!

  2. Okay, I have no babies- yet, but I have to say that something that I loved about my parents (our parents) was that they always did everything that they could to show that they loved us. No matter how little money we had, they did what they had to for us to feel like we were loved and safe. And I think –personally– that that is the best thing that any parent can do for their kids.

  3. I really liked that poem, and considering he was writing between 1871-1938 who knows that chance a baby has as a poet today. 🙂 I wonder what his son did grow up to be.

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